tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post8266703345480164573..comments2023-09-16T09:24:20.566-05:00Comments on Smile and Wave: Remembering This Time Last YearRachelDenbowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14685607684409546503noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-29993530121702627292009-10-17T15:42:25.880-05:002009-10-17T15:42:25.880-05:00That was beautiful Rachel. Thank you for sharing y...That was beautiful Rachel. Thank you for sharing your life with us all.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03728411484549962427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-36994173047443015012009-10-17T13:49:19.053-05:002009-10-17T13:49:19.053-05:00I just wanted to say so sorry for your loss. And a...I just wanted to say so sorry for your loss. And also thank you for puting the hard stuff into words and share them. I am in awe of your strenght, Ruby is lucky to be born into your family:)<br /><br />Warm hugs from cold NorwayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-65947650493809358782009-10-16T15:37:36.681-05:002009-10-16T15:37:36.681-05:00You are such a brave and strong woman, Rachel.than...You are such a brave and strong woman, Rachel.thank you for sharing all your stories with the world. <br /><br />I would never wish a loss like that even on my worst enemy. You'll never forget the loss, but you will be able to move forward and make beautiful memories with Ruby in just a few short weeks. And think of Sebastian with her... makes it just a little better. <br /><br />I wish you nothing but easy times ahead, and an easy birth.lexsmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08200632829053765954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-56338538491096600282009-10-16T15:19:43.819-05:002009-10-16T15:19:43.819-05:00you are so brave to share your story and it's ...you are so brave to share your story and it's so nice of you to do so, helping others to share and heal in the process.<br />hugs to you and your family :)Suzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05728265231870968521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-32099314521764995262009-10-16T11:08:37.419-05:002009-10-16T11:08:37.419-05:00Your story really touched me...
I went through th...Your story really touched me...<br /><br />I went through the same thing April last year. When our newborn son was 8 days old, i let him wear the shirt i originally bought for the baby we lost exactly a year before...It really helped me focus on our new baby and the love i feel for him. <br /><br />I still think about the miscarriage sometimes, but looking at my two kids i feel so blessed. I'm sad it happened, but at the same time i do think the miscarriage helped me grow as a person...<br /><br />I hope these last weeks of your pregnancy will go well and i can't wait to see the pics of Ruby!<br /><br />xoxo EeffieEvelienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07914506207413243104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-46934075156702015112009-10-15T21:39:09.953-05:002009-10-15T21:39:09.953-05:00I lurk on your site almost daily. Pretty sure I o...I lurk on your site almost daily. Pretty sure I only comment when there's a giveaway...{sorry}.<br /><br />But I wanted to thank you for today's post. My first baby was due in October 2006, but sadly miscarriage is a part of my story too. Though we busy ourselves with life (we can't help it with kiddos and hubbies to take care of!), we never forget. <br /><br />That little life is a part of ours forever - changes us forever. So thanks for stopping me in my tracks today to embrace it.faith busshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11317662252697888954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-86895553912899440222009-10-15T19:12:14.681-05:002009-10-15T19:12:14.681-05:00Rachel, I know I will never forget. I lost my firs...Rachel, I know I will never forget. I lost my first baby at 13 weeks. Then praise God...I found out I was pregnant with my daughter Madi. She is now 3. We just gave birth on the 4th of July to a healthy boy Sean. I will never forget my unborn baby's story either. So many other mommies are out there who have experienced the same type of loss. We need to remember to lift up and encourage them. Thanks for sharing your story with us!Tiffany Harperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04388626696350490618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-54532796528900525332009-10-15T16:17:59.072-05:002009-10-15T16:17:59.072-05:00we can never understand why things work they way t...we can never understand why things work they way they do, but we must learn to accept and be thankful for all the moments and memories we are allowed to carry with us. my husband and i had 12 miscarriages and had decided that being parents- didn't seem to be in God's big picture for us. it was a hard and painful decision to make, but we knew with his love and each other, we'd be okay. <br />about 1 month after this decision, we had the oppertunity to meet with a young woman who wanted to place her unborn up for adoption. it was a scary thing letting ourselves love and want again for that little one, but we agreed to meet with her. From the first time we met the birthmother, we knew and understood why things had happened. we were ment to be parents, just in another form. Our beautiful baby girl was born on 9/24/09- and everyday the healing continues. One day we will explain our great love of her to her, and why she is so special to us. <br />just know that the healing will continue as she grows. <br />you are amazing and strong and I can not wait to see miss ruby and the life she will bring to you all.paperyjanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879882117560584641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-42268967336079968652009-10-15T15:39:55.599-05:002009-10-15T15:39:55.599-05:00I'm sorry that you had to experience that part...I'm sorry that you had to experience that part of the story. It's an indescribable pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. We've experienced it so many times.<br /><br />Yesterday I was walking through the infant clothing and saw a "Baby's 1st Thanksgiving" onesie. Tears immediately filled my eyes as I realized that we would have been buying a little onesie like that had our child been born alive. It's a deep one that you really never forget.<br /> <br />*hugs* Thank you so much for remembering your dear lost little one. Healing comes when we take those moments to remember all that was lost.Melodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15046770101176634067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-73754257167230488442009-10-15T13:23:38.944-05:002009-10-15T13:23:38.944-05:00I always come back because when my husband and I h...I always come back because when my husband and I have our first baby (next year maybe??) and your blog is a huge inspiration to thrive for the best. You craft, you are a wife, you are a mother, and even though you blog about how difficult it can be every now and then, your spirit is still strong.<br /><br />I really hope that wasn't as cheesy as I wrote it but you get what i mean! :)Diana https://www.blogger.com/profile/17224404867214558821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-73543022810339500002009-10-15T13:07:56.224-05:002009-10-15T13:07:56.224-05:00your blog is so wonderful and you seem like such a...your blog is so wonderful and you seem like such an amazing and strong woman. <br />my heart really goes out to yall. my sister went through several miscarriages before finally having her beautiful children and i remember how difficult those times were for her.<br />Even though I personally have never gone through anywhere near the same kind of heartbreak, I can only imagine how difficult that must have been. But how wonderful that Ruby is now in the picture!! Congrats again on the beautiful daughter that will soon be joining your family! <br />God bless!...on the brink of something beautifulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05950794156189291500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-38330755331445122412009-10-15T12:26:25.741-05:002009-10-15T12:26:25.741-05:00tearing up...thank you for being so dear to your r...tearing up...thank you for being so dear to your readers & sharing so much of yourself! <br /><br />~EmilyEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04972174694761187403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-2756459133149050922009-10-15T12:22:40.498-05:002009-10-15T12:22:40.498-05:00I know the feeling, I've been there, and the j...I know the feeling, I've been there, and the joy that will be arriving soon will so help fill your heart again. How lovely that you have a quilt to help share the story of last year. Sebastian and Ruby are so very lucky to have a wonderful mother like you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14708733791206745514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-66893312068867149942009-10-15T11:39:27.172-05:002009-10-15T11:39:27.172-05:00Thanks for your uplifting thoughts today. Husband...Thanks for your uplifting thoughts today. Husband & I have been trying for 11 months now and still no luck.. I am starting to get very down & depressed about it. Sort of in a hopeless state. Your thoughts have helped to be more optomistic and hopeful. Thank you.Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01337607937480820770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-73251794107254936672009-10-15T11:06:06.167-05:002009-10-15T11:06:06.167-05:00This post made me experience many emotions at the ...This post made me experience many emotions at the same time...happy for all the children who are about to be born, a bit sad for having another pregnancy test negative when all I want for me and my dear fiance to have a beautiful baby of our own and most of all hopeful and optimistic for my and your future...It must be amazing to wait another member to such a beautiful and loving family...All the best!Majtolinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06858106893107832718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-52085523698748807332009-10-15T10:08:22.812-05:002009-10-15T10:08:22.812-05:00Hi Rachel. I have been thinking about pregnancy lo...Hi Rachel. I have been thinking about pregnancy loss a lot lately...remembering mine, thinking about you and others that have been through the same. I just wanted to send you all my love and hugs, for this anniversary and for Ruby's impending arrival. Thank you for sharing your story with the world and for letting others feel more at ease with sharing theirs, too.<br /><br />Love always, Karen xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-19091256105927856582009-10-15T09:26:29.873-05:002009-10-15T09:26:29.873-05:00Since i am fairly new to your blog as well, I did ...Since i am fairly new to your blog as well, I did not know your story. But thank you for sharing. It can be amazing what a support our friends online can be when we dont even know them. It definately gives you a sense of the universality within us. And you just may be helping someone else heal by being open with your life in this way! And I am not a mother yet, but I think the others are right about Ruby bringing you healing. And I think it is beautiful that you made a quilt and have made it a part of Ruby's 'special' things...You are obviously a wonderful mother :)Roots and Feathershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11749205578208874880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-42894900271625691772009-10-15T09:20:53.035-05:002009-10-15T09:20:53.035-05:00Thinking of you and lighting candles for all the a...Thinking of you and lighting candles for all the angel babies today...October 15th: Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day. <br /><br />How lovely it is that you will have a sweet baby to hold soon!mrs boo radleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05222005677722724226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-4324706601987207712009-10-15T09:00:23.763-05:002009-10-15T09:00:23.763-05:00You are amazing, Rachel! And such an inspiration t...You are amazing, Rachel! And such an inspiration to me and so many others. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your life. Sending you love and hugs!<br />xoxo -jJamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11651793857280121613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-77246455736103515792009-10-15T08:39:03.276-05:002009-10-15T08:39:03.276-05:00i adore you. fyi.i adore you. fyi.margothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16708809413098503372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-49555178779358531682009-10-15T08:28:26.126-05:002009-10-15T08:28:26.126-05:00I went through the same thing as you this time las...I went through the same thing as you this time last year and just three weeks ago today delivered my healthy baby girl, Ruby as well. I have been thinking about what a rough time I was having a year ago and how lucky I am to have a sweet baby to hold in my arms now. Its amazing how life works! Congrats to you and your family!Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09491434834822075577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-17640681452408275222009-10-15T08:08:44.406-05:002009-10-15T08:08:44.406-05:00Rachel
I am new to your blog so I was unaware of ...Rachel <br />I am new to your blog so I was unaware of 'the story' but I am aware {through experience} that bringing that beautiful little girl into the world will heal your wounds and make you stronger...but 'the story' will be part of your heart and in your life forever.<br />Sending you much Peace & Strength & LOVE...<br /><br />xoxoxo Laurie Anne of Rebel BlossomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-25110504636282121042009-10-15T07:44:49.473-05:002009-10-15T07:44:49.473-05:00I wasn't reading your blog at this time last y...I wasn't reading your blog at this time last year, but I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of your family during this time of combined joy + sorrow. Peace, love + light to all of you.<br /><br />sa.sonya audreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10871282082728736659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-50205636489886830262009-10-15T06:42:05.310-05:002009-10-15T06:42:05.310-05:00i love you Rachel. I think it's really good th...i love you Rachel. I think it's really good that you expressed yourself creatively through the process. You've been really strong and courageous this year and we're all really proud of you! Good job Mamma! Love Leigh-Ann and my family<br /><br />XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO!!!Leigh-Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17056338168387141738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4351644930286151865.post-77672653523297263722009-10-15T06:26:07.936-05:002009-10-15T06:26:07.936-05:00:) thanks for this post Rachel!:) thanks for this post Rachel!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01449195423709062032noreply@blogger.com